True Submission Test: What Kind of Submissive are You?

Posted on 26/12/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

The English Mansion’s Xmas Quiz 2025

True Submission Test
35 Questions Only Real Slaves Answer Yes To

This quiz will separate the Fantasy Subs from the True Slaves!
Only answer honestly.  No “kind of”.  It is Yes or No.
This isn’t a cute kinks I’d like to try checklist.
This is what you’ve actually done, not what you jerk off to!
Think you’re a true slave? Prove it. 

Find out at the end of this quiz what kind of submissive you are…
Let me know your result in the comments.

What kind of submissive are you?

True Submission Test
35 Questions Only Real Slaves Answer Yes To

1 / 35

1. Have you ever been spanked, or beaten with an implement (e.g. paddle, whip, cane etc.)?

2 / 35

2. Have you ever fantasised about being submissive to a dominant woman?

3 / 35

3. Have you ever written punishment lines by hand because you were told to?

4 / 35

4. Have you ever been locked in chastity for 7 or more consecutive days?

5 / 35

5. Have you ever worn women’s panties under your normal clothes?

6 / 35

6. Have you ever worn an anal plug out in public, or slept overnight with one inserted?

7 / 35

7. Have you ever completed menial housework/chores because a dominant woman ordered you to?

8 / 35

8. Have you ever been cuckolded by a woman, or been part of a group scene with multiple Mistresses and/or slaves?

9 / 35

9. Have you ever eaten your own cum because you have been commanded to?

10 / 35

10. Have you ever worn high heels/fetish boots; or a full gimp hood; or a gag for more than two hours?

11 / 35

11. Have you ever been made to sleep on the floor at the foot of the bed, or in a cage?

12 / 35

12. Have you ever agreed to a rule that you must ask permission to cum?

13 / 35

13. Have you ever been in total inescapable bondage?

14 / 35

14. Have you ever deeply licked a woman’s arse hole?

15 / 35

15. Have you ever eaten from a bowl on the floor?

16 / 35

16. Do you wear any permanent mark of ownership: tattoo; engraved padlock; locked chastity device; collar; discreet piercing; secret item of jewellery (ring, neck or waist chain etc.); painted toe nails?

17 / 35

17. Have you ever worn a maid/sissy outfit, or a full leather/latex/PVC outfit?

18 / 35

18. Have you ever begged a woman for your chastity cage to be unlocked, or for permission to cum?

19 / 35

19. Have you ever sucked a real cock after being commanded to do so by a dominant woman?

20 / 35

20. Have you ever watched femdom films/content/porn?

21 / 35

21. Have you ever been beaten where the marks lasted for more than 4 days afterwards?

22 / 35

22. Have you ever signed a real slave/BDSM contract giving up specific rights for a set period?

23 / 35

23. Have you ever dressed up and attended a fetish event/club?

24 / 35

24. Have you ever accepted in your everyday home life, during dungeon sessions, or at public fetish events, that you are forbidden from sitting on any furniture?

25 / 35

25. Have you ever worn a device with spikes around your cock & balls, and/ or had something inserted down your urethra?

26 / 35

26. Have you ever tributed money to a dominant woman for nothing in return?

27 / 35

27. Have you ever worn clamps on your nipples or balls?

28 / 35

28. Have you ever had a session with a dominatrix?

29 / 35

29. Have you ever had your mouth used as a 'useful hole/ws convenience' for a woman in need?

30 / 35

30. Have you ever agreed to 24/7 chastity with no agreed release date?

31 / 35

31. Have you ever been fucked by a domina with a strapon cock?

32 / 35

32. Have you ever worn a slave collar for more than 24 hours?

33 / 35

33. Have you ever edged your cock but not cum, or ruined your own orgasm, because you were ordered to?

34 / 35

34. Have you ever kissed a woman’s shoes/boots outdoors?

35 / 35

35. Have you ever attended a fetish munch, workshop or market?

Your score is


(Note: We don’t store any information on you from this quiz)

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Our Queen, Sidonia’s Christmas Message 2025

Posted on 25/12/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Thrilled to announce, I’m gracing the cover of: Femdom Royalty 

Femdom Royalty Magazine – Issue 2!

Fresh off the press and available right now, this stunning quarterly print & digital edition is all about celebrating the power, artistry, and global influence of international Dominatrices – curated with fierce elegance by the incomparable Lady Bellatrix.

This issue is extra special for Me – it features a long, exclusive interview with yours truly that I’m absolutely delighted with – candid, deep, and unapologetically commanding, just the way I like it.
Packed with exclusive interviews, sharp insights, slave advice, reviews of the hottest femdom chambers, books, events, and more, it’s a regal must-have for anyone who reveres Female power.
Grab your copy today and bow to the royalty! (Digital copy only: $6.99)  femdomroyalty.com


Our Queen, Sidonia’s Christmas Message 2025
Wishing all my devotees & Mansion members a very happy holiday season.

To every devoted slave, humble member, and secretly yearning sub within The English Mansion — may your holiday season be deliciously wicked. I know that for the some of you, this exquisite path of surrender exists mainly in the shadowed corners of your mind and the glow of your screens. Yet make no mistake: every moment you offer here  – is genuine service, authentic submission to Me and all superior women.

The Mansion is your hidden sanctum, your parallel reality where the natural order is restored: powerful Women reign supreme and you are precisely where you belong – beneath us, devoted, useful. When you cross My threshold, I reach inside and claim that most honest, most vulnerable part of you. I see you. I know you. And year by year, layer by layer, your mind rewires itself to My will, learning the sweet disciplines of obedience, service and total surrender. You become, in the truest sense, Mine — My virtual possession, My treasured plaything. Whether you identify as devoted slave, aching pain slut, eager fuck-hole, bondage devotee, fetish purist, shameless kinkster, giggling bimbo, rubber dolly or fluttering sissy maid… rest assured there is purpose for you here. 

Within The English Mansion walls exists a fetish wonderland — a timeless, pressure-free realm where the mundane world cannot reach us. Here we are free to plunge headfirst into our most depraved, most exquisite, most forbidden fantasies. And there is nothing shameful in such indulgence… provided it is approached with reverence, self-awareness, and sensible balance. Reality will call you back soon enough – but a delicious little escape. That harms no one… well, perhaps the occasional well-thrashed slave.

Merry Xmas, My pets. Be good for Me… or don’t. Either way, I shall enjoy you.

Mistress Sidonia xxx (those are kicks not kisses pets)

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We’re having a Cruel Yule 2025 – New Femdom Films

Posted on 13/12/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Watch the awesome Mistress Alexandra Wildfire in action

We have a special pressie for our loyal members… even more real femdom! Because membership has its benefits.
From Thurs 18th of Dec till Mon 26th of Jan 2026

30 Dominas in 40 Days of
Double Femdom Film Updates

It’s going to be a Cruel Yule this Winter inside The English Mansion.
So don’t miss out Join Here Now

Femdom Films Winter 2024/25
As a little tease, here’s a peek at some of the fabulous dominas
& new films we’re showing…



Wishing all our friends, fellow Dominas, devoted slaves & subs, site members, supporters & femdom enthusiasts
& the entire BDSM community

Merry English Mansion XXXmas 2025

Subs have you been good this year?
Because good boys are punished
& bad boys are really punished!
at The English Mansion

Mistress Sidonia xxx (those are kicks not kisses)

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Meet Our Hell’s Xmas Belles 2025

Posted on 07/12/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Meet Our Hell’s Xmas Belles 2025
If You Dare!

30 Extraordinary Dominas in 40 days of Double Updates

It’s going to be a Cruel Yule for all our subs this Xmas
with 30 Dominas taking charge inside
The English Mansion!

Find out about these real-life dominatrixes & dominant women here

You can watch & worship all these incredible dominas in action, inside our…

 Winter Wonderland
of Festive Fetish Fuckery
over 10 hrs of New & Exclusive Femdom Footage
30 Dominas in 40 Days
of Double Daily Film Updates
From Thurs 18th Dec to Mon 26th Jan 2026 

So Don’t Miss Out Get Full Access Here

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Mistress T Returns: Apex Predator Unleashed

Posted on 01/12/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Mistress T Returns to The English Mansion:
Apex Predator Unleashed

The one and only Apex Predator is back! And, she can smell your fear. The second Mistress T strode into The English Mansion, the entire place plunged into  kinky depravity. Relentless cock-teasing, savage cuckolding, and broken men transformed into obedient, cock-worshipping sissy sluts, trained to fluff real cocks until they were hard enough for Mistress T’s pleasure. Chained slaves were passed around as sex toys, every hole used, every shred of dignity taken. Yes, she looks sweet. Her voice purrs with sensuality, a timbre that mesmerizes… but what spills from that vicious mouth marks you as prey. She takes exactly what she wants.

Decadence at Maxwell Manor
From there, we hit the road – a rolling storm of merciless dominance tearing across the UK. Visiting the breathtaking Maxwell Manor, under the sadistic reign of Miss Suzanna Maxwell, (photo above right)  along for the ride was the stunning Queen of Celestial Studios, Mistress Vivienne. Later we bumped into Miss Ruby Marks aand Miss Anna Elite at the Decadence femdom party.

Mansion Impromptu Play Party
Back at The Mansion, the chaos escalated. The wicked Mistress Nikki Whiplash arrived and an impromptu spree of perversion erupted: human furniture beneath us as living seats, backsides beaten, mouths and bodies offered up without hesitation. It was relentless. It was perfect.
Normal Life, what’s that?

Come and find out this Xmas what Mistress T’s been getting up to inside The English Mansion

Watch Mistress T‘s amazing content on her website
Watch her clips on C4SWant more Mistress T?
you can catch up with her in person on her Loyal Fans 

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Wrecking Holes at Lady Sara Borgia’s Legendary Strapon Party

Posted on 25/11/2025 by Mistress Sidonia

Wrecking Holes at Lady Sara Borgia’s
Legendary Strapon Party

Reigning Peg Queen: Lady Sara Borgia

Lady Sara Borgia is the undisputed queen of UK strapon parties. This stunning looking, wickedly cruel, yet approachable and experienced prodom hosts kink events, and 121 sessions – from her spacious, multi-area, fully-equipped  chambers in the west Midlands. One of her regular events is her legendary Strapon Party!

Popping My Strapon Party Cherry

Earlier this year I was invited to one of Lady Sara Borgia’s  ‘Strapon Parties’ – the event where ‘your strapon fantasies come to life’. When I said yes, I genuinely wasn’t sure I’d made the right call. A whole day of wielding my cock and pounding willing holes sounded pretty full-on. Turns out it was the best decision. It was absolutely fabulous, honestly, they could’ve charged me and I’d still have said thank you!

Alongside Lady Borgia and Lady Bellatrix,  I waited as the eager slaves, guys, sluts, sissies, toys – take your pick (to me they’re all victims 😛) – started arriving and lined up in front of us. It was like a cruel femdom dream, come true for me – a row of naked, willing playthings standing there, knowing I could do whatever I wanted: grope them, whisper filthy cruelties in their ears, and most importantly – fuck them senseless with my strapon cock. 😈 The power rush was incredible.

Wrecking Holes

As the day progressed I fucked mouths, used some huge toys, brandished my vibrating cock, and managed to fist no fewer than four very amenable holes! That wasn’t down to any particular skill on my part – it was largely because those holes had already been opened up and thoroughly used for hours by the other experienced, relentless ladies in attendance. By the time the second rotation came around, they were dripping, relaxed, and so ready that my hand just glided in. I loved how easy it was – none of the usual slow, careful warm-up required. Fellow ‘peggee’, the awesome Lady Bellatrix – an absolute one-woman party, joked that we should have had a little bell to ring every time a fist disappeared into someone. She managed quite a few. Yes, at our party that bell would have been ringing away.

Photos of dommes attending recent Strapon Parties
The unholy trinity has arrived… and they’re all packing. Yep a 100 % chance of being railed by all three!
Lady Sara Borgia, Lady Bellatrix, Mistress Sidonia, Mistress Nikki Whiplash,
Miss Zara DuRose, Obey Angelina, Mistress Ava Black, Mistress Ava Von Medisin, Mistress Inka, Mistress Vixen & Mistress Alexandra Wildfire.
(I’m in the top left photo, from earlier this year, see even Bellatrix can’t keep her hands off my vibrating strapon cock!)

Pegging Heaven

What made the day even better was that I could just turn up, be evil, and enjoy myself without any of the stress of organizing everyone (no Mansion pressure!) All of that fell to the impeccable Lady Sara Borgia. She’s been running these parties for years and has it down to a fine art: everything runs like clockwork. Pegging stations (benches, sling etc.), lube and condom prep tables, clean-up boys/maids on hand, a relaxed, friendly, chatty vibe – it feels more like a private fetish house party than some intense formal scene. You don’t have to be a hardcore submissive to attend; you can just be someone who loves anal play and wants to get railed by a room full of hot dommes.

So, I went to a Sara Borgia Strapon Party… and left with a four-fist badge of honour and zero regrets.  (To My four fist holes, you know who you are! We shared a special moment, thank you for letting me in so completely. And yum to going deep with the giggling sissy with the pretzel legs 😉)

Inside Lady Sara Borgia’s Strapon Parties

Lady Sara Borgia’s legendary Strapon Parties are held in her private, discreet, fully-equipped chambers in the West Midlands – easy to reach with plenty of free parking. Each event is kept deliberately intimate, hosted by Lady Sara an approachable, and hugely experienced dominant who always invites two other top-tier dommes to join her, with six to eight very lucky bottoms attending.

There are two parties on the same day (afternoon and early evening), each lasting three hours. That means every bottom can expect to be thoroughly pegged, multiple times, by all the dominant women present. For the pegging there’s a huge range of strapon cocks in every shape and size imaginable, so whatever your taste: be a beginner or have a stretch goal, you’ll be catered for. Light refreshments are provided. If you ever get the chance to go – as a top or a bottom – take it. You won’t regret it.

Next Strapon Party – Don’t Miss Out

Lady Sara Borgia’s next party is very early January 2026, then at the very end of Feb 2026, (when I hope to be returning.)
Check out the details here; or via Lady Borgia’s website; or visit her X/Twitter:

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